My name is Masha,* I am a mom of three beautiful kids. We arrived here with my sister and her daughter 9 months ago. My kids and I used to live in a small charming city, Bucha, 15 minutes away from Kyiv. We loved our small apartment and our time together. I loved my job, and my kids loved their school and friends. Most of all, the kids loved the moments when my mom and dad came to visit us. It has already been a year since they saw their grandparents for the last time. It has already been a year since they saw their dad for the last time. It’s so hard.

I still remember that morning when Russia invaded Ukraine. I remember the helicopters that flew over our house and bombed the airport in the city next to ours. We saw it through our kitchen window. I remember the basement where we slept for two weeks, the longest weeks in my life. I remember the fear on my kids’ faces when they saw tanks and burned bodies next to those tanks. It was a nightmare.

The day we fled Ukraine was so hazy. We couldn’t believe that we were finally safe and we didn’t know what was gonna be next. Thank God we got a chance to get to the USA. It was so hard to start building a completely new life in a completely different country. I was not sure that we would be able to survive.

Luckily, I found a job I have been working at since July. As I didn’t have my work permit, my new employer, Dean, offered to keep track of my hours until I got it. They were so kind, but it was very difficult to survive until I got my first paycheck. I finally got it in October, when I got approved for work authorization. It was so hard for my kids, after everything they have been through without speaking any English to adjust here. The same for my sister.

We are still struggling every day. But thanks God, we met a lot of nice people that helped us and made our lives easier. I am so grateful I met these amazing and kind people from New Start Ministry that have been helping us for almost 4 months.

It is hard but now I know we are not alone in this country.

The same about my motherland. It’s hard but I know the entire world supports and prays for Ukraine.

Together we are stronger and we will win.

*Masha’s name has been altered for privacy. She delivered this speech as part of a rally in solidarity with Ukraine one year after the Russian invasion.

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By John Curtis

Almost three years ago, Mario and Ruth and their three children arrived In New Haven after an odyssey that had begun in 2016 when religious persecution forced them from Angola.

They spent two and a half years in a favela in Rio de Janeiro, where Mario resisted drug gangs’ efforts to recruit him. After several attacks and the murder of a friend, the family decided to leave. With just $500, they began a journey to the United States that took them by bus across Brazil and through Peru and Ecuador to Colombia. There they joined other refugees on a harrowing two-week march through the Darien Gap to Panama. In the jungle they lost their money and passports to bandits armed with guns and machetes, were separated from two of their daughters, forded rivers that rose to their necks, and saw fellow travelers washed away in swollen streams.

“If your friend falls dead, there’s nothing you can do for him, you have to keep walking,” Mario said a few days after their arrival in New Haven. “If you gave me $10,000 to do that again, I wouldn’t do it.”

They found their daughters, who had traveled ahead when their group split up, at a camp in Panama. After a month they continued traveling north. People along the way provided food and Mario cleaned windshields, begged for money, and did whatever he could to keep going. In December of 2019, after more than seven months of travel, they reached Reynosa on the border between Mexico and the United States. On January 20, they crossed into McAllen, Texas, and found shelter with Catholic Charities. When they arrived in New Haven in February after a 53-hour bus trip, there to greet them were IRIS staff and members of the Jewish Community Alliance for Refugee Resettlement. They were the fifth family resettled with the help of the partnership which includes the Jewish Federation of Greater New Haven and six local synagogues.

Within a few days the family was settled in an apartment in the Hill neighborhood. Because they entered the country on temporary parole as asylum seekers, they are ineligible for such benefits as health care and can’t work without authorization. When permission to work came through from the U.S. government, Mario, who had worked as a chef in Angola and Brazil, found a job making bread at a restaurant. Ruth, who’d worked in supermarkets in Angola and Brazil, found a job in a market in New Haven, but is now home with their three girls and their eight-month-old son. The girls, who are 9, 8, and 4, are in New Haven public schools. A year ago the family moved to a new apartment in Newhallville, and Mario now has a full-time job in a shipping facility in North Haven.

While their life is safer and more stable than in previous years, their future remains uncertain. As Seventh Day Adventists, they were persecuted in Angola. Mario’s father was killed because of his religion. Unlike refugees, who enter the country with their residency status settled, asylum seekers may stay while their application is processed. The family’s application is still pending.

They were one of two asylum-seeking families on the bus trip from Texas in February 2020. The other family, from the Democratic Republic of Congo, was resettled by another co sponsor, the First Congregational Church in Madison. Although IRIS has provided some assistance to asylum seekers in the past, this was the first time IRIS and its co-sponsors had taken on resettling asylum-seeking families.

“Catholic Charities, which runs the shelter in McAllen, Texas, sent out an APB that they have African families that don’t seem to have anywhere to go,” said Chris George, director of IRIS. “We responded immediately that we will take five families.” Sustaining families without social and health benefits was challenging, but George felt that IRIS’s robust network of co-sponsor groups was up to the task. In the end, Catholic Charities sent just the two families to New Haven.

Many refugees have friends or relatives to take them in, but that has not been the case with many from Africa. “We have no family here, no one to help us,” Ruth said a few days after the family’s arrival in New Haven. “We had nowhere else to go.”

Jean Silk, coordinator of JCARR, said deciding whether to accept the family required a consensus among the member synagogues and the federation. “It was an unknown for IRIS as well as for JCARR. Each rabbi conferred with the president of their board. Everybody said yes,” Silk said. Ultimately, the decision rested on their faith. “Torah instructs us 36 times to care for the stranger—far more than it commands us to observe the Sabbath or any other law.” JCARR committed $10,000 plus resettlement services that included finding an apartment, helping register the children in school, providing food and transportation and orienting the family to life in New Haven.

JCARR began in 2016, during the Syrian refugee crisis, after Silk attended an IRIS information session to learn more about resettlement. “I knew every Jew in the room,” she said. “We all got together and said, this is huge, we have to do this.” Because each synagogue was too small to take on resettlement individually, they decided it had to be a group effort by member congregations and the Jewish Federation. Silk signed on as the group’s coordinator. 

Their first family arrived in 2016 from the Democratic Republic of Congo. Their second family, from Syria, arrived on election night that year. Another family from Syria arrived early in 2017 during the Trump administration’s Muslim ban. “We knew they were in the sky, coming from Turkey, but we didn’t know whether they would be allowed to stay in America once they landed at JFK,” Silk said. The family was granted entry. The fourth family came from Iraq, followed by the family from Angola. Since then, JCARR has welcomed a family from Syria and a family from Afghanistan. JCARR is now preparing to welcome its eighth family, from Ukraine.

JCARR has followed a structure recommended by IRIS, which involves assigning specific duties to task forces. In addition to one or two leaders for each task force, partner synagogues provide one or two liaisons for a total of about 24 in JCARR’s leadership group. There are also volunteers who find apartments, furnish them, provide transportation, and help out on moving day. Of those volunteers, Silk said, “They’re sort of uncountable.”

Silk said JCARR members have also learned to handle unexpected challenges, like tracking down a lost family in New York’s Port Authority bus station. “I have to reach out to other people, and we just figure it out,” Silk said. “The learning is two ways—we learn as much from our families as they learn from us. We love talking with each other. Sharing information about what is Judaism, what is Islam is so rewarding. Working with other volunteers is one of the most fulfilling things I have ever done. People all care about the same thing and we work together to figure it out.”

Max and Abdul were paired up as part of IRIS’ Cultural Companions program. They’ve bonded over coffee, walking around New Haven, and knowing multiple languages.

“I don’t always understand English but Max speaks Turkish and some Dari, so I don’t need an interpreter!” Abdul says.

Abdul works for Amazon, but aspires to be a plumber, his former profession in Afghanistan. Once he gets better at speaking English, he’ll apply for his plumbing license.

Abdul arrived in 2021, just days before the Taliban takeover.

“Abdul has been full of stories. I’ve learned what the life of a refugee is like, particularly an Afghan refugee, which is a world I didn’t know too much about. He’s opened my eyes.” Max says. 

Max and Abdul get together once a week. Next up, they’re planning on visiting the beach or hiking up East Rock Park. 

IRIS’ Cultural Companion program pairs volunteers with immigrants like Max and Abdul to build friendships and exchange cultural traditions. 

“We deal with the problem of isolation because a lot of immigrants coming to this country are lonely,” says Mbeki Yunana, IRIS’ Cultural Companions Coordinator. “We try to create this platform where people can meet and become friends, and work towards a better life of self-sufficiency for refugees.”

The Cultural Companions program runs on the backs of our wonderful volunteers. If interested in becoming a Cultural Companion, please sign up here.

Five years after reaching Connecticut, members of a Syrian family become citizens and homeowners and reflect on their first days.

By John Curtis

In January 2017, Reem Alhaji arrived in Connecticut with her husband, Khaled, their two-year-old daughter, Elin, and a mix of emotions. The family had left Syrian’s Kurdish region to escape the country’s civil war and lived in Istanbul for three years while applying to enter the United States as refugees. They arrived in America with two bags of clothes and diapers for Elin.

“I was scared and happy at the same time,” Reem recalled. “We had no family here, no language. We were thinking, how is it going to be there?”

After the ride from the airport in New York City, they arrived in New Haven where Susan Suhr, from Woodbury’s New Start Ministry, greeted them in the company of an Arabic interpreter. Then, they drove to Waterbury, where an apartment was waiting for them.

“She gave my husband a key, teaching him which door you can open,” Reem said. “Everything was clean, everything was available—clothes, food, furniture, diapers, whatever we needed. We were so happy.”

Five years later, the family has reached major milestones in their life as immigrants—they own a house in Manchester, Khaled has steady work as a driver for Fedex, their two older daughters are in school, their third daughter was born in May, and this summer Reem became a U.S. citizen. Khaled is still going through the citizenship process.

“I was so excited for them,” Suhr said of their accomplishments. The Alhajis were the first of four families to resettle with the help of New Start Ministry. In 2019, the group welcomed a family from Afghanistan, and in November 2021, received another family from Afghanistan, who were evacuated from the Kabul airport. The ministry is working to get a green light to sponsor a fourth family.

The ministry started in 2015 at St. Paul’s Church in Woodbury, when members of the congregation considered becoming co-sponsors. After a presentation by Ashley Makar of IRIS, they reached out to clergy in neighboring towns, built a team, and in the summer of 2016 were close to ready to welcome a family. The Alhajis arrived in January 2017, just a couple of weeks before then-President Donald Trump’s “Muslim ban” went into effect.

A core group of between 21 and 28 volunteers meets weekly to coordinate their activities, Suhr said, adding that they come from at least a dozen houses of worship in the area. “We have Muslims, Jews, Catholics, Protestants, agnostics on the team.” They’re organized in such task areas as acculturation, English lessons, child care, education, employment, finance, health care, housing, household furnishings, social services, transportation, and translators. “We have found that it is best to divvy up the responsibilities among those people. It’s also very important for us to stay coordinated.”

Even though volunteers work in specific areas, Suhr said, New Start Ministry makes a point not to “silo” people by their tasks. “I don’t think that works very well, because you isolate people too much and you’re not getting the full picture of what’s going on with the family,” she says.

One of the key lessons she’s learned, Suhr says, is “how amazing it is that people who don’t know each other can bond so quickly and work so beautifully together. I am so grateful that I have had this opportunity to work with people and help make significant change in the lives of people and watch them grow and become independent.”

Another lesson came from their experience with the family evacuated from Afghanistan last year. New Start Ministry’s first two families had already been through the trauma of leaving their country and culture when they arrived in the United States. Years of living in a third country and waiting for their visas had given them time to come to terms with their situation and the realization that they’d probably never see their home country again. “The Afghan evacuee family didn’t have that time. It was still in the moment. It was still raw for them,” Suhr said, adding that the family has since moved to Houston to be near family. “If we got another evacuee family, we would deal with them differently. We will listen a lot more and try and better understand what their goals are, what their dreams are, recognizing that their experiences are quite different from what refugees experience.”

The husband in the evacuee family had been a journalist at home and hoped to find similar work in the United States, even though he spoke no English. “He hadn’t had the time to process the change, that this is a totally different life, that he needs to rebuild,” Suhr said. “That is the distinction that I saw, the refugees had already gone through that self-awakening while they were exiled in Turkey.”

The Alhaji family’s time in Istanbul was difficult, Reem said. “They don’t like refugees. Everywhere they don’t like us. Nobody helped refugees there.” Khaled had gone ahead in 2014 and Reem followed later. The civil war in Syria drove their decision to leave. “We don’t have enough freedom to live. There was the war,” Reem said.

They married in a religious ceremony in Turkey and Elin was born there. Khaled supported the family with work as a tailor, which he’d been in Syria.

Now settled in their three-bedroom suburban ranch home in Manchester, they feel safe and secure. Elin, their oldest, is seven and in the second grade. Ella, 3, who was born in Connecticut, is in preschool. Reem stays home with four-month-old Mila, and Khaled works six days a week. The family speaks Kurdish at home and has found friends in a Kurdish community in South Windsor.

Their first months in America were very busy, Reem said. They had interviews for work, they learned how to drive, they studied English. “It was so busy, paperwork, vaccines,” she said. Every step of the way, she said, volunteers from New Start were there to help. “Some people were teaching us English, some people were taking us to doctors’ appointments, grocery shopping.”

Khaled first found work with Marie’s Movers in Southbury, and after about two years moved to Fedex. Reem worked for 18 months as a cashier at Brooklyn Baking in Waterbury. The job helped her learn English, but she stopped when she was expecting Ella.

In 2017, Reem and Khaled married again in Southbury because their religious ceremony in Istanbul was not recognized. In attendance at the wedding were volunteers from New Start Ministry and IRIS staff.

“I am happy here,” Reem said. “I know my kids are safe. They are going to school. They have food. Everything is available.”

 

By Thomas Buckley

On a cold day in January, 2017, a Syrian couple, Ebrahem and Ranim, and their four children arrived in New Haven after spending 30 hours flying from Jordan. They were welcomed by four anxious but enthusiastic members of Westminster Presbyterian Church and Beth El Temple.

For the past nine months, the congregations partnered with IRIS to plan for the arrival of a refugee family. They were trained as part of IRIS’ co-sponsor program, to resettle the family with housing, furniture, financial aid, school enrollment, English lessons, and access to healthcare.

Less than two weeks before their arrival, IRIS got notice of the Al Radi family of six, originally from Syria. They each arrived with a single piece of luggage, shivering and exhausted from their arduous journey.

The WPC/Beth El team kicked into action, transporting them to their hotel while their apartment was being readied, and serving them a hot, Syrian meal, home-cooked with love by members of both congregations.

Throughout 2017, there were countless acts of kindness and love exchanged between the Al Radi family and the WPC and Beth El congregations. Over the years, the family received social service benefits, employment, education, and green cards. The Al Radi family has flourished and grown, to now include one-and-a-half year old Amir.

It is no understatement to say that the Al Radi family is a true refugee resettlement success story.

Speaking virtually no English upon their arrival to Connecticut, the Al Radi family now all speak beautiful English, have become U.S. citizens, and have purchased a home in West Hartford. Capitalizing on Ebrahem’s remodeling skills, and Ranim’s decorating skills, they have transformed their house into a beautiful home.

This past summer, the family reached another milestone: they received their last financial aid check from the WPC/Beth El refugee resettlement fund, as the Al Radis have reached financial independence. They plan to use the money towards purchasing a new car.

 

By John Curtis

On a Saturday in June, Fadi and Eman Al Asmi and their three children welcomed two visitors from IRIS, offering dates and orange juice in their home in an apartment complex in Bloomfield. Their two daughters, Sham, 7, and Farah, 8, vied for space on their dad’s lap as he and Eman recounted their journey from a war-torn Syria to a new life in Connecticut. Outside on the porch, Eman had left slices of red pepper to dry in the sun. Six years after their arrival, both Fadi and Eman have full-time jobs, the girls are in elementary school, their brother, Hamzi, starts eighth grade in the fall, the family has learned English, and they recently became U.S. citizens.

“It’s more safe here. In Syria it was dangerous for us, for my kids. We moved to Jordan, and we lived there for five years. Then we came to the United States as refugees,” says Eman.

When they arrived in 2016, they were resettled by Interfaith Refugee Resettlement Committee (IRRC), a co-sponsorship group affiliated with IRIS. Since then, IRRC has resettled a family from Iraq and another from the recent evacuation of Afghanistan.

Before forming IRRC, however, members of the group had resettled a Turkish family that, generations earlier had been forcibly removed to Uzbekistan, then part of the Soviet Union. “In Uzbekistan they were in Russia but without any rights as citizens, the right to work, to school, so they applied for refugee status,” said Marilyn Boehm, one of IRRC’s co-chairs.

In 2016, the members regrouped, joined by people from the First Church of Windsor, a local mosque, members of the Loomis-Chaffee School community, and members of other congregations, to form the Windsor Refugee Resettlement Committee (WRRC). “They came together because they were aware of the situation of refugees coming in,” said Boehm. They reached out to IRIS, went through training, and followed IRIS guidelines to set up teams of volunteers.

“We have co-chairs, we have a medical team who follows all their medical care. We have four nurses, an educator team of four or five educators, a whole team of drivers, a small budget group, and one person acting as administrator who handles Google docs and calendars,” Boehm said.

There’s also a housing group that finds an apartment and furnishes it, down to acquiring appropriate kitchen utensils.

With a total of about 50 volunteers, between 20 and 30 are actively involved week to week. Many are retirees who have flexible schedules, including Boehm, who was a pediatric physical therapist.

Between 2018 and 2021, after resettling the Al Asmi family and the family from Iraq, the group took a hiatus. The Trump administration had slowed the flow of refugees to a trickle, but the group also needed to take a break. “Part of it was us regrouping and revitalizing,” said Boehm.

With each resettlement the group has reviewed what worked and what didn’t. But each time, Boehm says, there are new lessons to learn. “Even when you adjust what you thought you should do differently, the next family is completely different. You tailor it somewhat to each individual family.”

Nevertheless, two key lessons emerged. Boehm stressed the importance of filling out a change of address form with the post office as soon as the family arrives. Misdirected letters can lead to serious complications as families apply for benefits. The other lesson was to ensure that the family’s sponsor is on the contact list for everyone who interacts with the family—doctors, dentists, etc. One family missed a medical appointment because they couldn’t understand the doctor’s text reminder in English.

Fadi and Eman Al Asmi left their home in Dara in 2012 because the civil war was hitting too close to home. While driving to visit his father in a hospital in Damascus, Fadi came under fire from Syrian soldiers. “Maybe God gave me another life,” he said of his close call.

They stayed five years in Amman, and their daughters were born there. Their application to enter the United States as refugees was granted in 10 months. While Fadi celebrated, Eman was not so sure. “I was so excited, but my wife doesn’t like coming here,” Fadi said.

“I am crying. I wanted to go back to Syria,” said Eman. “We don’t know any people. We don’t have any idea about the United States. It’s hard when you go to a different country. But he told me we should go.”

On their arrival, Eman’s doubts dissipated. “We came to our apartment at 9 o’clock at night,” she said. A Muslim woman met them at the door with a traditional Middle Eastern dinner of chicken and rice. IRRC volunteers were there to greet them. “When we opened the car door, I was so happy,” Eman said as she recalled the volunteers saying, “Welcome to your apartment. We are a family, we’ll work together. Don’t worry about anything, just take a shower, eat, and sleep. Tomorrow we’ll be here.”

Eman still misses her family in Syria and being able to walk to do errands in her neighborhood. “In my country everything is close,” she said. Here, she and Fadi have to drive everywhere.

She works as a housekeeper at a retirement home and Fadi works as a baker, the trade he learned in Syria. “The dad is a master baker,” said Boehm. “He came with this wonderful skill as a pastry chef, and he’s found himself a niche now.”

Both of the other families WRRC has resettled are doing well. The Iraqi family of six that arrived in 2018 now owns a home in West Hartford. WRRC recently celebrated the 100-day anniversary of the Afghan family’s arrival. The husband has found a full-time job in furniture assembly while his wife is at home with a new baby. Their other four children are in elementary, middle, and high schools.

Reflecting on these experiences, Boehm says, “It’s been fun even though at times it’s been overwhelming and frustrating—the amount of paperwork and details and following up here and there.” But, she adds, “It makes me more aware of all the cultural differences in the world and in the country and how good people can perceive things differently. The more open you are to looking at things differently, the more you’ll see.”

A few weeks ago, Florida Governor Ron DeSantis tricked 50 Venezuelan asylum-seekers in Texas into boarding a charter plane and flying to Martha’s Vineyard, Massachusetts. They were told they were going to Boston, where they would find a range of assistance, get legal aid, and be given jobs. 

All of this was a lie. 

Although the Martha’s Vineyard community was surprised by these new arrivals, they gave them a warm welcome. Hundreds of individuals, several churches, shelters, and several aid groups scrambled to help the asylum seekers.

At around the same time, Texas Governor Abbott chartered two buses of asylum seekers to arrive at Vice President Kamala Harris’ residence. Over the past several weeks Abbot has sent more than 5,000 migrants to Washington, D.C. and New York City in an effort to punish these cities for their immigrant-friendly politics.  

At IRIS, we believe newcomers should be welcomed to this country. Venezuelans, like all migrants fleeing persecution and poverty, should be treated with compassion and respect. They should be given an opportunity to apply for asylum. 

“I am proud to say that most communities in this country would welcome a planeload of migrants with open arms,” said Chris George, Executive Director of IRIS. “If they came here, we would find places for them to live, help them get settled, and treat them like human beings instead of pawns in a cruel political game.”

Every person deserves an opportunity to feel safe. Take action— tell your national and state elected leaders to welcome people seeking protection and safety.

September, 2022
Photo © Ray Ewing/Vineyard Gazette

From Cultural Companions to a Multicultural Café
Story & Photography © Rachel Peet

What started as a simple pairing of cultural companions seven years ago has now flourished into an interconnected, multicultural family at a heartwarming café and fellowship program in downtown New Haven, called Havenly.

The two women came together through IRIS’ Cultural Companion Program in 2015, after both having arrived in the States the year before. Caterina Passoni arrived from Italy to begin her studies at Yale University in the Fall and Nieda Abbas arrived with her family in the Summer. Nieda worked as an accomplished chef and entrepreneur in her home country of Iraq, and then in Syria before immigrating to the U.S. 

After Caterina and Nieda’s daughter were paired through IRIS, it was more than the city that became a haven for them. Caterina, Nieda, and the rest of the Abbas family connected over their shared meals, cross-cultural conversations, and newfound memories together.

“I think that was one of the reasons why I felt at home with Nieda — because I grew up in Italy my whole life, and then I came here for a few years. It was one of the few places I’d go where they were all eating together, and that was the same kind of spirit I grew up with,” Caterina reflected. 

A couple of years filled with tutoring sessions, family meals, and adventurous outings between the Abbas family and Caterina spurred the grand idea of selling Nieda’s delicious meals to their first customer on the Yale campus. The satisfied review led Caterina and Nieda to sell many of her homemade recipes from the Middle East all throughout and beyond the Yale campus. Word of mouth wasn’t the only way in which Caterina and Nieda’s collaborative start-up grew. It further developed through the “heavenly” aromas and heartfelt approach that came on the side of each meal or baked good. In the spring of 2018, Nieda and Caterina launched Havenly. 

The few years it took for the two, new business women to start Havenly as an official business were brief, but also challenging. Nieda opened up and acknowledged, “I got stuck in the fear for a while. That’s one of the most important things to remember. If you don’t get out of that fear, you can’t move forward.” 

One of their greatest obstacles was the outbreak of the COVID-19 pandemic. At this point in their long journey, both Nieda and Caterina were equipped to surpass any obstacle. With their resilience they made sure their brand new café doors remained open, especially for those in greatest need throughout New Haven. During the first six months of the pandemic, they provided food relief to those in need. Nieda emphasized, “It was a hard time, and we felt their pain. I think because of what we did, God opened doors for us.” 

The café stands out so uniquely because of their integrative and inspiring atmosphere. The dynamic duo has welcomed dozens of other refugee and immigrant women.  All new hires grow into the diverse, Havenly family through their six-month fellowship program that has drastically evolved since their first fellowship. They are in their fifth fellowship program now, which includes education around individual rights, fairly paid work hours, yoga, art therapy, group outings, and more. The integration of deeply varied cultures, mindsets, and experiences at one, single café truly lives up to the Havenly name. After all, Nieda states that “Havenly comes from two things — my own journey and the situation that refugee women are facing in general, in the United States.” It is the ultimate haven endlessly cycling through gratitude, empowerment, and belongingness across borders and foreign flavors. 

 

For more, visit havenlynhv.org

Jeremie Moves Ahead

Story & photos by Zeenie Malik

Jeremie is originally from the Congo but has spent most of his life in a refugee camp in Tanzania. He speaks French, Swahili, and now he’s trying to master English. “My priority is for my kids to study. I want my kids to help the community, work here, be good people here. I know with IRIS this dream can be true,” Jeremie says. Jeremie, his wife, and three boys were welcomed to Connecticut by IRIS in 2020. He meets weekly with Mark, a volunteer tutor at IRIS, for English lessons. Jeremie currently works at Amazon and ImageFIRST Healthcare Laundry Specialists, but aspires to be a mechanic or electrician, once he improves his English.

“IRIS helped first to integrate me and my family. I thank IRIS and my friend, Mark. He shows me I have a person behind me. When I have a problem, I ask Mark. For this, I thank IRIS.” During their weekly meetings, there’s a lot of laughter as Mark teaches Jeremie English. They play Wordle and Mark will pause when they come across a word that Jeremie is unfamiliar with. “You don’t know baseball? It’s like cricket.” Mark stops his lesson to draw a baseball diamond and explain the game.

“It’s a way of making this country a better place,” Mark says of his experience helping Jeremie. “We’re a land of immigrants. We have people coming into this country who really want to work hard and be successful and just need a little bit of help to get there.” Refugees often take any available job when they arrive, to help reach self-sufficiency. We help refugees get this first job and then continue to assist them in improving their skills and find better paying jobs.

To move up in their careers, IRIS developed the Move Ahead Program (MAP), where eligible clients are enrolled in programs to improve their English skills and in other training and certification programs. In addition to enrolling MAP clients in ESOL classes, IRIS has trained 50 volunteers like Mark to work one-on-one with almost 100 MAP clients, like Jeremie. We expect to enroll 80 new clients in MAP each year and will work with clients as long as necessary to achieve their goals.